the year that LOST...

After a gap of 3 months.. i thought to pen down something.. and since its year end nothing cud be better to just recall the whole year,

dont know where to start, but frankly speaking this year gave me lot to learn about life people and added to my ability to understand and judge people...which skill i thought i had mastered..

like everyone as the sun set 0n 31 st dec i had reason to hope for best tyms in the year 2009, my transfer was to be finalised , pay hike, marraiges, exams .. and of course with support of gud friends i entered in 2009...... there lie a long list of what i lost, my friend who lost his life on 8 jan on duty, my transfer against my will, some family problems, but over and above all .. i lost a relationship ...ya the one called best friends , the faith were shaken, when i knew ..that my location matterred the most inspite of my committement to help him in the best possible way that i could do, the quality were missed that was actually required... and of all .. i offerred something that was not needed so ... no doubts.... we must depart... how cud such relation be maintained which had two faces... ...with rounds and rounds of talks ... things finally normalised... ya we should bid adieu...BUT .. then also ... how could people have two different settings in mind .. how cud people act in two different ways .. how cud you go for the things which you were and are totally against ... how could you do things that you dont mean.....yaa i was mistaken .. as told....hmmm may be ....but this left me all shattered and ha .. no exams...no preparations... naaa it was not that i was just feeling for something it was because how could ... someone be of such type...., anyways .. still the faith on god continues... he might have planned these to teach me something.....

marraige at home, bro getting into iit, added some smile on my face .. getting some new friends , attending friends marraige was the event that helped to regain my confidence in friendship, but still the doubt remains.. and this tym .. i m bit careful ...i dont have much strength left to survive the next shock ...hope new year brings joy and i achieve as per my plans...no one to be blamed, it was my luck , my fault, my mistake....and hence i accept it in totality, and take all responsibility .better luck .. and tyms in 2010....

when skirts shrank to minis..world became a better place to....

If you cannot do great things , do small things in a great way'

Napoleon Hill

it was rightly said by all time great warrior, today its time to turn to small to survive be it nano car by TATA, or atom bomb , both created big impact.. it was Muhammad Yunus, microfinance and small loans to farmers that helped him to move poverty. small ideas bring big results, it was college projects of google founders, which ultimately.. led GOOGLE, yahoo and cisco systems were too stanford projects.

as FIDEL CASTRO said, i began a revolution with 82 men, if i had to do it again i 'd do it with 15 only.

wALT DISNEY INVENTER OF mickey mouse, BUILT A HUGE EMPIRE THAT TODAY IS ONE OF THE BEST AND OLDEST standing company in the world. Dont forget it all started with a MOUSE...

small things do great things, a small leak can sink aship, a small invention like TV remote can change life forever. wHEN PHONE SHRANK TO MOBILES, SKIRTS SHRANKS TO minis, MANY SWORE THAT WORLD BECAME A BETTER PLACE TO LIVE IN,

FORTY YEARS AGO on 20 th july, human kind landed on moon , it was a small step that changed the whole world. a journey however long starts with single small step. Dont undermine the power of small . and to really succedd, become GOD OF SMALL THINGS>>>>>

kab ka tha gila....kaise keh diya alvida

It all started when yesterday after returning from plant and dinner sometime around 11.15 pm i just turned on my pc and clicked on songs of life in metro....
it was not the first tym i was listening to this song.. but dont no why yesterday it touched my heart , may be i was thinking of someone , may be i was missing someone , or may be all of sudden i was lost in my past . sometimes it happens that u go back to ur past unplanned, feel for those left moments , persons, friends.. and then u cannot control urself getting deeper and deeper inside those leftout moments which u enjoyed during their present ... which might not have that importance those days .. but u feel for those moments today. the promises made, the life, those friendship and ofcourse friends....but its life and it goes this way...
sometimes you start hating things that make you recall ur past ..is'nt ...but koi nahi .....just clicking to movie THE DEPARTED added to my pain ...ki suddenly i got a call .. hey itni raat ....it was 2 min to go for 12... and the very first wish ...happy B'day PROf....
thanks yaar ... and then the ph kept ringing...bringing back my faith ki naaa.. sometimes past also remembers present... waking for me till 12 just to wish me on my b'day .. ph kept ringing whole nite...and those missed left no stone unturned wishing me call, msg, mail, thanks to IT revolution that made me feel that i m important and there are people apart from my familiy too who cares... thanks a lot to u all... for being there for me and wishing me ....
but ... there were some who were found missing that ... change in the first wish ..at 12 was missed ...may be i missed or they missed....dont know .. but its life it goes this way ...with some sweet and sour memories of past .. for giving strength for better future....as the wait continued but... sometime ppl say ki prof u expect too much from life and ppl and its not fair,,, but sorry i have not changed myself, i am the type i was... no one claims that he changed...but i think i m sure of myself.....and with this fight of feeling emotions....that song.. continued to play...ya....

chupake se kahin, dheeme paanv se jaane kis taraf, kis ghadi aage badh gaye hamse raahon mein ,par tum toh abhi the yahin .kuchh bhi na suna, kab ka tha gila kaise keh diya alvida

Attitude & Perception

This is a real story happened between the customer of General Motors and its customer-care executive.A complaint was received by the Pontiac Division of General Motors: This is the second time I have written to you, and I don't blame you for not answering me, because I sounded crazy, but it is a fact that we have a tradition in our family of ice cream for dessert after dinner each night. But the kind of ice cream varies so, every night, after we've eaten, the whole family votes on which kind of ice cream we should have and I drive down to the store to get it. It's also a fact that I recently purchased a new Pontiac and since then my trips to the store have created a problem. You see, every time I buy a vanilla ice cream, when I start back from the store my car won't start. If I get any other kind of ice cream, the car starts just fine. I want you to know I'm serious about this question, no matter how silly it sounds: "What is there about a Pontiac that makes it not start when I get vanilla ice cream, and easy to start whenever I get any other kind?" The Pontiac President was understandably skeptical about the letter, but sent an engineer to check it out anyway. The latter was surprised to be greeted by a successful, obviously well educated man in a fine neighborhood. He had arranged to meet the man just after dinnertime, so the two hopped into the car and drove to the ice cream store. It was vanilla ice cream that night and, sure enough, after they came back to the car, it wouldn't start. The engineer returned for three more nights.
The first night, they got chocolate. The car started. The second night, he got strawberry. The car started. The third night he ordered vanilla. The car failed to start. Now the engineer, being a logical man, refused to believe that this man's car was allergic to vanilla ice cream. He arranged, therefore, to continue his visits for as long as it took to solve the problem. And toward this end he began to take notes: he jotted down all sorts of data: time of day, type of gas uses, time to drive back and forth etc. In a short time, he had a clue: the man took less time to buy vanilla than any other flavor. Why? The answer was in the layout of the store. Vanilla, being the most popular flavor, was in a separate case at the front of the store for quick pickup. All the other flavors were kept in the back of the store at a different counter where it took considerably longer to check out the flavor. Now, the question for the engineer was why the car wouldn't start when it took less time. Once time became problem - not the vanilla ice cream, the engineer quickly came up with the answer: "Vapor lock". It was happening every night; but the extra time taken to get the other flavors allowed the engine to cool down sufficiently to start. When the man got vanilla, the engine was still to hot for the vapor lock to dissipate. Remember: Even crazy looking problems are sometimes real and all problems seem to be simple only when we find the solution with a cool thinking.Don't just say its "IMPOSSIBLE" without putting a sincere effort... Observe the word "IMPOSSIBLE" carefully... You can see "I'MPOSSIBLE"... What really matter is your attitude and your perception"Don't cry when the sun is gone, because the tears won't let you see the stars.".

its for you my friend......

A story tells that two friends
were walkingthrough the desertDuring some point of theJourney they had anArgument, and one friendSlapped the other oneIn the face.The one who got slappedwas hurt, but withoutsaying anything,wrote in the sand: TODAY MY BEST FRIENDSLAPPED ME IN THE FACE . They kept on walkinguntil they found an oasis,where they decidedto take a bath.The one who had beenslapped got stuck in themire and started drowning,but the friend saved him.After he recovered fromthe near drowning,he wrote on a stone: TODAY MY BEST FRIENDSAVED MY LIFE. The friend who had slappedand saved his best friendasked him, "After I hurt you,you wrote in the sand and now,you write on a stone, why?"The other friend replied"When someone hurts uswe should write it downin sand where winds offorgiveness can erase it away.But, when someone doessomething good for us,we must engrave it in stonewhere no windcan ever erase it." LEARN TO WRITEYOUR HURTS INTHE SAND AND TOCARVE YOURBENEFITS IN STONE!!!They say it takes aminute to find a specialperson, an hour toappreciate them, a dayto love them, but thenan entire lifeto forget them. .Take the time to live! Do not value the THINGSyou have in your life. But valueWHO you have in your life! " Happiness is not something you find, it's something you create…"
'Life Is Too Short To Waste Time Hating Anyone'

change has begun.....

New day.. New changes....but not in the smile i wear and the care....without which i am NONE....

i will.....
Have a firm handshake.
Look people in the eye.
Sing in the shower.
If in a fight, hit first and hit hard.
Keep secrets.
Never give up on anybody. Miracles happen everyday.
Always accept an outstretched hand.
Be brave. Even i m not, pretend to be. No one can tell the difference.
Avoid sarcastic remarks.
Choose my life's mate carefully. From this one decision will come 90 percent of all happiness or misery.
Make it a habit to do nice things for people who will never find out.
Lend only those books which i never care to see again.
Never deprive someone of hope; it might be all that they have.
When playing games with children, let them win.
Give people a second chance, but not a third.
Be romantic.
Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
Loosen up. Relax. Except for rare life-and-death matters, nothing is as important as it first seems.
Don't allow the phone to interrupt important moments. It's there for your convenience,not the caller's.
Be a good loser.
Be a good winner.
Think twice before burdening a friend with a secret.
When someone hugs me, will let him be the first to let go.
Be modest. A lot was accomplished before you were born.
Keep it simple.
Beware of the person who has nothing to lose.
Don't burn bridges. You'll be surprised how many times you have to cross the same river.
Live your life so that your epitaph could read, No Regrets Be bold and courageous. When you look back on life, you'll regret the things you didn'tdo more than the one's you did.
Never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them.Remember no one makes it alone.
Have a grateful heart and be quick to acknowledge those who helped you.
Take charge of your attitude. Don't let someone else choose it for you.
Visit friends and relatives when they are in hospital; you need only stay afew minutes.

Begin each day with some of your favorite music.
Once in a while, take the scenic route.
Send a lot of Valentine cards. Sign them, 'Someone who thinks you're terrific.'
Answer the phone with enthusiasm and energy in your voice.
Keep a note pad and pencil on your bed-side table. Million-dollar ideas sometimesstrike at 3 a.m.
Show respect for everyone who works for a living, regardless of how trivial their job.
Send your loved ones flowers. Think of a reason later.
Make someone's day by paying the toll for the person in the car behind you.
Become someone's hero.
Marry only for love.
Count your blessings.
Compliment the meal when you're a guest in someone's home.
Wave at the children on a school bus.
Remember that 80 per cent of the success in any job is based on your ability to deal with people.
Don't expect life to be fair.

english is funny ..but learn it Honey..for making money...

We will begin with a Box and the plural is Boxes
But the plural of Ox should be oxen not Oxes.

Then one fowl is a Goose but two are called Geese
Yet the plural of moose should never be meese.

You may find a lone Mouse or a whole set of Mice
But the plural of House is Houses not Hise

If the plural of Man is always called Men
Why shouldn’t the plural of Pan be called Pen?

If I speak of a Foot and you show me your Feet
And I give you a Boot would a pair be called Beet?

If one is a Tooth and whole set are Teeth
Why should not the plural of Booth be called Beeth?

Then one may be That and three may be Those
Yet Hat in the plural would never be Hose.
And the plural of Cat is cats and not Cose
.
We speak of a Brother and also of Brethren
But though we say Mother we never say Methren

The masculine pronoun are He His and Him
But imagine the feminine She Shis and Shim
.
So English I fancy you all will agree
Is the funniest language you ever did see..

English people..left country long back...so no more ANGLOPHOBIA...hahah..lets hav some phobias....

Death is universal truth so why..to fear it why THANATOPHOBIA

ELECTROPHOBIA... dont fear electricity....and fear of Failure..what we call ..ya... KAKORRHAPHIOPHOBIA......

Reach new Heights..no ACROPHOBIA...getting call on telephone..do pick ..yaa why TELEPHONOPHOBIA...and someone wants to talk to u man ..why..GLASSOPHOBIA...

hey girls..getting wrinkles..yaa must fear it... yaa GRAPHOPHOBIA.. and to all software people... no hatered for computers.. yaa no ..LOGIZOMECHANICOPHOBIA.......

the rule says.... just write latin or greek word of things you fear..make adjective and add phobia...simple naaa....so last one...deer. greek word CERVUS...adjective CERVINE...and fear of deer..is...yaaaa...CERVINOPHOBIA......ya fear of deer not the dear ones.......

Wake up indians ...wake up...

This ad i saw in the lead india advertisment.....and is really motivating.....

Wake up india.. its time to NOT go to work..its time to GET people work for you.Dont be an Engineer just because you have a degree in engineering.Do what you think you are good at, and you will be good at what you think.Start something thats your own, where you cant be sacked, and you certainly cant quit .Start something for as little as ten thousand, you dont need more that that.You dont need references, politicians or police.All you need is you, start and ten thousand can become thirty billion.Its true you can do it.You who is reading this article can do this.You simple regular guy , like it happened once to a regular guy....so wake up india and start dreaming...... yaa dream big....and b what you want to be....dont just be the part of crowd, either lead the crowd or just be left alone....in both cases you can bring changes..becoz it always starts..with one...which turns into billions.....so..start...today to make history......

The sine curve of my life....

Its all about my life and my experience which started sometime back with a smile.. ya sine curve in third quardent....but sooner or later.. it had to reach the other quardent.. and ....

Smile is infectious you catch it like flu,
When i smiled at someone, she started smiling too,
I passed around the corner and someone saw my grin
When she smiled I realized I had passed it onto him.
I thought about that smile and then I realized its worth
A single smile just like mine could travel around the earth.
so if you feel a smile begin don’t leave it undetected,
lets start and epidemic quick and get the world infected…
she was infected..and it all started…

Sometime by chance we happend to meet, stranger from afar,
friends were what we had become ,stranger we no longer were.
we had become friend because that we were supposed to be, it doesn’t had to make any sense but it did to me and she.

i am glad that we met and bonded, and glad for smiles we shared. I was glad that I had friend and she also cared.
it mattered not how far apart the land in which we lived, what mattered most to me was the friendship that we gave….

she carried away with her a reflection of me . I dreamed her , I wished for her existence. she will always be part of my life . if I liked her it was becoz we shared at some moment the same imagining the same madness the same stage..
But..... if you are honest and frank people may cheat you, if you are kind people may accuse you of being selfish and having ulterior motives..the good you do today people will often forget tomorrow..
I believed friendship often ends up in liking but liking in friendship NEVER….,
But that’s true friendship if you want happiness for the one even if their happiness means that u are not part of it…

With the belief ki if birds can sing after storm why cant i… I tried but true friendship is like sound health the value of it is seldom known unless it is lost….i think
and then as the curve moved into the first quardent.....

A life which is to end only when I am no more.a life which transformed me to fighter to the core .a season of love and friendship for eternity which will last
in my future to follow, I will long to realize this past .. memories of this part of journey I will carry all life long .memories of those precious moments which made my life a beautiful song. My eyes go teary emotions fill my heart as words to say are very few now its tym to bid adieu……..and i was left unattended....she says..it was trial... i call it betrayal.. dont know... who lost... who was right... but i can see... sometyym back she lost the one who really cared... and now the one..who really liked her....over and above everything.. the one who gave importance to her to the extent above he gave to himself....

but like a true well wisher... i still pray.. may god bless you with...such a caring and well wisher that.. you never miss me...although i doubt you ever missed me.. but sometimes it helps to remain happy...with some misconceptions than.. facts...all the best mam.... and thanks.. for passing time with me....which lacked quality.......

Best things of life......

The best things in life are the things that you cannot buy......like... the singing of birds in the sunlit morning sky...., the dazzling magic of stars in the moonlit night. the sweet smelling fragrance of the dew kissed flowers. the tingling noise of church bell every hour... the care of the friend.. the season of love and eternity.... the long hour of talks of college days... the fights.. .. that winter evening with four friends.. mild rain and four pegs of rum... those 100 bucks for petrol and a rusty bike.. a plate of maggie noodles and a spoon for 10 friends..at 3.45 am.. one girl.. one number friends and of course fight......as the year go by us we find the greatest are the things we cannot buy.....but.. now the meaning has changed... with endless effort to earn... how we cud buy.. the things we are missing the most we enjoyed the most.....do look back your past do giv your friends a call... do keep in touch ...just try once and your single call .. your formal enquiry..can bring back all the happiness that you are missing in your life..or whose meaning you hav lost in this fast moving world ...yaa you will def get back all your smiles.. when your past will be flashed and you will be back to those good old days of life free from responsibilities.. free from professionalism..selfishness..and with the motto..lets laugh together...and get success..together against the todays motto...lets laugh at other and get success at the cost of others......just just try smiling with other and see how beautiful this world is....

when i smiled at sm1 , he started smiling.. tooo

i was luking for someone..whom i lost somewhere in this fast moving .. world.. running blindly.. for so called success..or being successful...... par.. koi cheez agar ghum ho jaayee to itni aasani se thode hi naa milti hai .. i shud have been careful... and so i must suffer.... but somewhere today also in some part of this 24 hrs day....a bit of that missing one is flashed...making me comfortable.. ki i hav not lost completely..., u can call it a transformation.. or change.. that is the way of life..... but this transformations.. hurts.. sometime.. it may be for the betterment of someone.. but not for me atleast...and if this transformation is yet to be done...to my belief and faith says ki some day lady luck will smile on me.. if the transformation is already done... then also... i will continue with this faith ki kabhi zindagi k kisi mod par i was lucky enough ki i enjoyed the compny of one... ... so no prob..prof .. chalta hai chalta hi rahega... wahi hasana .. hasaana... life nikal jayegi....but its all about that someone who understood and took risk to bear with me... for those long years....arre apni wo .. nahi prof aisa nahi hai ... tum samajhte nahi ho, padhai karo, mai ISB com'on, .. wo ye keh raha hai ... aur suuno .. i m good cook..... no certificate needed.... hey u chubby .. kya hote jaa raha hai .. control karo bhai ...... yee how mean ... ppl say me slim and u chubby.. hav'nt u seen urself.... .. par smart lagte ho tum bhi kabhi .......aur inn sab k baad eik baat batau.. you looked great sometyms.. really .. i mean it bhai..to thanks bolu ya tum sarcastically bol rahe ho... arre nahi ..sahi mey dil se...okk thanks..... but abb kya... dekh mujhe dukh iss baat ka hai ki.... itne dino mey mujhe you looked great only four tyms.. poor record....and then all silence i m feeling sleepy gud nite.........hahahaha...missing those moments.....and will ..shayad .. kuch bhi kar jau life mey .. kitna bhi successful ban jau... par shayad ye moments... kabhi nahi bhul paau... shayad kabhi nahi ....ya that kindred spirit..... who walked with me... and the one i m waiting for.....ya.. my strength... my guiding force..
whom i hav lost or, it was destined till now.. but faith.. will continue.. and the moments will be cherished.. without the boundations.. of time, life ...as it all started with a smile and that smiled too....